1. Naughty and Nice! Communication.
Do not misunderstand me. Babies are beautiful and sweet. I loved their snuggly need for me. Their tiny fragility. I cannot help however but appreciate my little ones’ ability to express their feelings, both of love and frustration, to me now. I look at a video from last Christmas and my one year old was squealing at me. Trying to talk. She then pulled the hair of my then two year old and I know now that was because she could talk. In the mayhem of two under two last year, that meant a confused and pained toddler and a baby who was too small to see what she had done wrong. Harrassed, exhausted Mam. Now, there are verbal wars but there is naughty and nice behaviour and we all know what it means! It makes life easier to live.
2. Decorating.
The thought of putting up the tree last year gave me palpitations. I couldn’t get my head around throwing colouredy clutter into an already panic-inducing living space. I actually told my husband I didn’t want to. I am Mrs Christmas! I will wear a selection of festive jumpers over the next three to four weeks, eat gingerbread men and love every snowy, flaky, Christmas cakey moment. Yet I couldn’t find the joy. Last year I was in the throws of anxiety. We did put up the tree and Gigi remembers it so I am delighted we did. This year however it was lovely. A world of difference. The girls could help and did. They adored decorating the tree. We dug out the Euro Disney purchases and each girl selected their princess baubles to hang. Betsy is holding onto her ones tightly ever since. She has even brought a Tinkerbell one to bed. I am so grateful to be able to enjoy this tradition with the ladies this year.
3 Tolerance and Coping. Keeping it Cool.
Last year all dirt scared me. All I did see were piles of laundry. Dust. Clutter. It was like having gremlins lurking in their own hidey holes, lairs, making my own home an unsafe place. An unpeaceful place. A threatening place. I see it all still. Now I can deal with it better. The daily grind hasn’t changed. I have.
4. The Cuteness that Cannot be Bettered.
Staring at the girls in wonder is pretty amazing. Betsy adores the lights. Just simple colourful glass. Entranced. Ireland has fostered Christmas markets this decade much to my joy, and now we can bring the girls to an event that will be family friendly and atmospheric. There is nothing to beat the wooden decoration and face painting sweetness of a community event.
The oddities of a village life that can be eccentrically charming portrayed through a festive eye. We went to Moate in Co. Westmeath this year. Check out the retro merry go round. I like the Abba Arrival helicopter.
6. Something like a Routine.
The knowledge of when day begins, thrives, relaxed and ends is a powerful tool for an anxious parent.
7. Singing like No One is Listening.
Both girls sing all day. Particularly Gigi. She often makes the lyrics up. As a doting parent, I do believe she is better than Adele. I could listen to these tunes all day. She also has an eccentric repertoire, ranging from the expected Disney classics such as Let it Go to the more traditional tunes of I’ll Tell me Ma’. Mr Paper is to take credit here. Not limiting his bedtime crooning to nursery rhymes, he has Betsy chirping along to The Rare Auld Times.
8. Retirement of the Sterilizer.
What is it about this device? It takes control of our world. There is nothing more liberating than clearing that counter space and bagging up that bottle washer. I can now fill it with pretty (but useless) porcelain fripperies that took my fancy!
9. That Elf.
Stealing/ adopting Scandinavian tradition once again, our elf came to live with us two years ago. See (How to Hygge with Ophelia and Children).We have a small Christmas visitor watching out for behaviour. Oddly named Squiggles by Gigi, he is on high alert and is a mischievous, moving and mouthful minx. I love him. Betsy won’t look him in the eye. Gigi just wants to give him a cuggle. That conversation was ended in a squabble. Things are better this Christmas but they are still real! Angels and devils.
10. Santa Comes to Life.
Santa becomes very alive again. I always felt close to this Christmas magician but now I get to let him visit our home. We get to see magic in action. Wonder. Joy. These emotions cannot be bought.
Let us leave it with another look at the merry go round. Vintage eighties. I think I actually want one for Christmas. A Truly Lovely Christmas.
It gets better every year until they get too old for the magic and then you make different memories just as special but different…Like the time my youngest son presented his nan with a bag of marbles …” for the ones she had lost” Did we laugh or did we laugh and my mum the loudest after she had playfully clipped his ears..lol
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That is so funny Carol 😉
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It still makes me smile 🙂
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I love it 🤣🤣 I know I brought my great nan a set of candy teeth for the ones she lost when I was very young. Memories!!
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Indeed…I could tell you a funny one about candy teeth..but that is for another day 🙂
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Lovely post, Orla, have a wonderful Christmas with your family x
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Thank you Suzanne! You too🤶
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The girls are coming into such neat ages for Christmas and well everything with exploring and questions. Enjoy and have a wonderful holiday with family.
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Thank you and you too! They are asking hilarious question. Gigi is quite upset that baby Jesus is not a girl
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that is a good question. Hard to say it was (still is sometimes) a man’s world. Good for her thinking outside the box. Love it. We would so be friends Gigi and I.
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She has a super way of looking at the world 🤶
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Your post is setting the mood for Christmas, Orla. Enjoyed reading this posts of yours.
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Thank You, I am glad. The mood is getting festive around here alright 🤶
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wow! we don’t have that kind of setting here. so I’ll wait for more pictures
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They are on the way☃️
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🙂
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Oh my, that took me back to the days when mine were more interested in the boxes gifts came in that the actual gifts. Yours are at the best ages for this season too, as Carol said it gets better until they get old enough to let the magic go. Not that that is stopping me put up a forest of trees, although I am living in a house full of boxes containing things that need to be out of boxes and creating a festive feast on the eyes.
Great post Orla 🙂
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What a lovely reflection/comparison to the last year! That is awesome that you’re encouraging your girls to sing haha I think my parents and husband got annoyed with my creative liberties with songs. You guys have captured the spirit of the Christmas.
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Christmas is so much more magical and fun (mostly!) with toddlers and young children. My nieces will be 5 and almost 2 this Christmas and they get so excited with all the lights and festivities.
Any tips for telling a 22 month old that an advent calendar is just 1 chocolate a day?!
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No. Any tips for telling a Mammy the same thing??😁😁
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Hehe!
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This is heartwarming. I think Christmas is different every year. And I’ve learned that even though it may be a little tough one year, it doesn’t mean that the next one will be the same.
Glad to hear this is a lovely one for you Orla. Enjoy making more memories!
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Thank you Gloria! Have a lovely Christmas 🤶🎅
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Wow. Sounds like your family is in the Christmas sweet spot. I hope you all continue to enjoy a wonderful, and blessed holiday season!
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We had a really festive few days. Loved it! Have a lovely Christmas too Gabe ☃️
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I’m so glad this Christmas is much easier than last year! I’m sure they will just continue to get better as years pass! Merry Christmas! 🙂
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Thank you🤶🎅 it really is. Have a lovely Christmas ⛄
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Same to you! 🙂
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So sweet Orla. And you have that little elf too! They can get up to a lot of mischief I’ve heard 😉
Have a blessed and wonderful festive season with your family lovely. Xx
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Our elf is a right 🐒🐒 !! Wishing you a wonderful Christmas too xx
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Beautiful post. Christmas is extra magical when there are little ones to enjoy it. 🙂
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Thank you Judy!
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🙂
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Hooray for getting rid of steriliser! It’s the best feeling ever!
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Loved moving it on. Really satisfying!!
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Thank you for this post. All those Christmas traditions are so important because we carry them with us for the rest of our lives, and they become part of our identity. My daughter and son age 23 and 20 still want an advent calendar, and I do try to keep up the traditions, with the exception of leaving a carrot and glass of sherry out on Christmas Eve….
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I think these traditions are so sweet. I love getting to do them again 🤶🎅
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This is sooo sweet!
I don’t have kids, but I thought the same thing about Christmas getting more and more fun as I’ve watched my nephew and niece grow up. 😀
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It is just a different perspective. I love it!
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There is nothing better than Christmas with young ones who believe, with all their hearts, the magic of it all ❤️.
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It is really gorgeous 🤶🎅
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This is such a cool piece setting the mood for Christmas! This is my favorite time of the year! Thanks for sharing this! Would love reading your thoughts on my latest blog post here: http://thisissivylla.com/2017/12/christmas-hair-make-guide/
Love,
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I know I’m late to the party but you are so right, the season is brighter when they are old enough to communicate and still believe! I can remember his first Christmas and the thought of writing all those Christmas cards… I think I cried. My son was 10 months so you think I’d be okay at that point but I was so very tired and overwhelmed!
Your Christmas traditions seem have found a good rhythm! I hope ours does too!
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I left out the cards thus year…don’t tell anyone
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Lols!
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I won’t 😉
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I don’t have kiddos of my own, but we celebrate the holidays in my classroom and at my school. The last two years, Toys For Tots donated a brand new toy to every single student! The joy in their eyes! That’s what it’s all about ❤️❤️
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That is so it x lovely.
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This post totally gave me a good dose of Christmas spirit, #FPG! Thanks for sharing the loveliness!
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Am so glad! Happy Christmas to you and yours Traci!
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I had a wee anxious moment there – but then twigged that this was written the year before. Hope you are feeling the love this year too! 💕
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I sure Am! Thanks Sonia sorry for worrying you. I got the book- delighted with it.
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Thanks Orla, I’m currently trying to get kids to write cards, we have had an argument, and no I’m not writing the cards for all their school friends. Then they want the tree up, that’s not going up yet. Then I’m waiting for the postman to deliver a parcel.. I’m sure Christmas day will be lovely and kids add to the magic, but right this minute I’m stressed… lovely post!
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It can be very stressful. I have had more arguments than I can count in the last few weeks. Those will not be remembered though and the fact you were with them for the card writing will. X
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I love this post the second time around..Does that mean you may have a Christmas jumper picture for my Christmas jumper corner for my Friday’s Christmas traditions and treats??
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Such a lovely read Orla! Enjoy your family 🙂
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And to you and yours Debbie! Especially with your lovely grandchild.
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Christmas will be magical this year at your house. I think there is a “sweet spot” for children and Christmas and you are entering it this year. Enjoy.
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Thank you! I really think I Am!
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I still approach Christmas with wonder!
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Never change Susie!
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Nothing is more precious than seeing Christmas through your children’s eyes. Merry Christmas to you and your family, Orla!
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Have a lovely Christmas Erin to you and yours🙂
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Very touched Claire x
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I loved this post last time I read it, Orla – I do miss having little ones in the house! We still go to town on the decorations and my girl loves Christmas, even if the boys are grinches!! I have shared this on my PainPals blog regular feature “Monday Magic”, Happy Christmas, Claire x
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Thanks Claire! Have a lovely Christmas with your family xx
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